The Holy Spirit is not an impersonal force; instead, He is a person -- like God the Father, or God the Son.
If the Holy Spirit was an impersonal force, after all, then we could use Him to get what we want -- the same as we do with electricity. Yes, we could channel Him. Manipulate Him. Maybe even hold seminars and write books on "How to be Filled with the Power of the Holy Spirit."
But we can't.
No, He's a person. That means we can work with Him. Talk with Him. Maybe even hold seminars and write books on how to have a relationship with Him.
But reduce this relations to a set of techniques -- to a series of steps that will get us what we want?
It doesn't work when we try this with people.
And that means it doesn't work when we try it with the Holy Spirit.